Spotlight on “fairness” in polyamory

This blog post is part of a series on the new, vastly expanded More Than Two site. This essay spotlights the Polyamory and Fairness page. Look for more spotlights in the coming days and weeks! Image: karpik-hoi “It’s not fair!” We all have an inner five-year-old that stamps its feet when we Read more

Spotlight on relationships without restriction

This blog post is part of a series on the new, vastly expanded More Than Two site. This essay spotlights the Love Without Restrictions page. Look for more spotlights in the coming days and weeks! Since I flipped the switch on the new version of the More Than Two polyamory site, Read more

Keeping a relationship from getting boring

This question originally started out as an answer on Quora. I thought it would be appropriate to copy it here. How do you keep a relationship from getting boring, dull, losing the shine? That’s easy. The answer is contained in the question. Don’t let the relationship become a routine. It’s Read more

“How do you not feel jealous?”

I recently came across a question on Quora that asked how it’s possible not to feel jealousy when you see someone you fancy choose someone else. As jealousy is a perennial subject amongst those polyamorously inclined, I felt it might be helpful to copy my answer here. I opened an Read more