Rules and Agreements

How do rules fit into a polyamorous relationship?

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Here you'll find essays on rules, agreements, and guidelines that work—and some that don't!—in polyamorous relationships.

Are Rules Necessary?Polyamory without rules? Isn’t that anarchy and chaos?

Rules That WorkWhat sorts of rules help make relationships successful?

Game ChangersSometimes, new relationships are scary