Polyamory and the Public

Being out, and public perceptions of polyamory

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It's not always easy being different from what society expects or considers “normal.” Here are some thoughts on surviving as a polyamorous person in a mononormative world.

Should I come out?Thoughts on the choice to be open or closeted about alternative lifestyles

Why I'm OutWhose business is it anyway?

Media PerceptionsSome observations on the media…and what that says about society