About

I started this site in 1997 as a resource for my former self: the Franklin who didn’t know that there were other people like me, had never heard the word polyamory, and who had no idea how to navigate polyamorous relationships. The site has grown over the years, and since 1999 has been one of the Internet’s top destinations for information about polyamory. In 2011, I moved the site from its old home at xeromag.com to its current home. In 2014 I co-authored a book on polyamory by the same name: More Than Two: A practical guide to ethical polyamory.

Franklin Veaux

I've never been in a monogamous relationship. I took two dates to my high school senior prom, and I've been practicing polyamory for longer than the word "polyamory" have existed. Along the way, I've learned some lessons.

You can find out a lot more about me on my other Web sites: Xeromag, where this site got its start; and FranklinVeaux.com, where you can learn about some of my other projects.

More Than Two

More Than Two is no ordinary poly book. This book distills decades of experience in polyamorous relationships.

The Game Changer

Sometimes, relationships change things. This is the memoir of my early days in polyamory, filled to the brim with mistakes I made and lessons I learned.