Practical Guides for Polyamory

How-to guides for building poly relationships that run smoothly, and a few tips on things to avoid

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This section contains essays about the nuts and bolts of making poly relationships work smoothly. It talks about common traps and pitfalls, tools for building successful relationships, and advice on logistics.

Time ManagementManaging time in a polyamorous relationship

Life Without WallsKeeping relationships smooth

Your partner's other partnersStrategies for good relationships with your partner’s other partners