Welcome to More Than Two

Franklin Veaux's polyamory site

I need your help. This Web site is currently under attack and may soon cease to be.

You can help save this site! I need to pay my lawyer before the hearing. I still owe him almost $13,000. He's asking for $6,000 before January 10. If there’s anything you can do at all, please, please consider donating to my GoFundMe. Find out more here.

Recently, a group of Internet bullies has used a campaign of threats, harassment, and bullying to force the sponsors of a polyamory convention to cancel the convention after a single individual falsely claimed on TikTok that I am affiliated with that convention. Read my statement here.


polyamory, n.
poly • am • ory
The fact of having simultaneous close romantic relationships with two or more other individuals, viewed as an alternative to monogamy, esp. in regard to matters of sexual fidelity; the custom or practice of engaging in multiple romantic relationships with the knowledge and consent of all partners concerned.

More Than Two is the home of Franklin Veaux’s pages about polyamory and ethical non-monogamy. If you’re new to this site, a good place to start is the Polyamory FAQ.

Polyamory BasicsGetting familiar with polyamory, basic principles, and common myths

Principles for Good Relationships Identifying and nurturing healthy relationships

Jealousy and InsecurityDealing with self-worth and security, and handling the gremlins of jealousy

Practical TipsManaging logistics and making polyamorous relationships work

Poly and the PublicInteracting with the world, being out, and talking to media

Primary/Secondary (hierarchical) PolyDating a couple, and taking care of a secondary’s needs

Poly/Mono RelationshipsNurturing relationships between polyamorous and monogamous people