
Woohoo! I’ve been working for months on a complete overhaul of the More Than Two site, and at last it’s finally live! This is the biggest content revamp since I first started writing about polyamory on the Internet back in 1997. (Good Lord, has it really been that long?)
Every part of the site’s been looked over and revised. I’ve revisited pages that have languished untouched for years, bringing fresh eyes and new experiences to what I’ve written. And I’ve added whole new wings to the site, including a new (and still quite small) section on sex and polyamory and a new (and quite large) section on intimate partner abuse in polyamorous relationships.
As part of the latter, I’ve put together an infographic on polyamory and abuse, drawing on personal experience and on months of reading and research about the way abuse manifests in polyamorous relationships. (A big thank you to those of you who’ve talked to me about your own experiences in abusive polyamorous relationships!)

Over the next few days, I’ll be highlighting some of the new and revised pages, talking about what makes them different and the thoughts that have gone into them. In the meantime, I invite you to explore, see what’s new, check out what’s changed. I’ve also added quite a few new words to the polyamory glossary!
I’ve also created a polyamory Substack. I’m not sure what I will use it for, but for right now it’ll mirror the blog at morethantwo.com.
The More Than Two site has grown since I first started noodling about polyamory over at xeromag.com, before I spun off the polyamory pages into their own site. If you include the More Than Two blog, there are nearly 270,000 words on the site—that’s more than two books worth! Maintaining it through the years has been a massive undertaking; just this update alone represents several months of work. I hope you’ll find something useful here.
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