Jealousy and insecurity

Dealing with Jealousy

In this part of the site, you’ll find essays on dealing with issues of jealousy, insecurity, and other gremlins in a polyamorous relationship. Here you’ll find practical, hands-on advice for dealing with the green-eyed monster and building a sense of self that is strong and secure.

9781944934002_frontcover_smallBuy a short e-book I co-wrote on jealousy management in polyamory.

Jealousy: Theory

The theory of jealousy management

When your partner tries something new

Dealing with barriers that aren’t there for others

Jealousy: Practice

The practice of jealousy management


What if my partner compares me to someone else?

Managing jealousy PDF

Download a PDF with practical tips for managing jealousy

Becoming secure

On how to become a secure person


On puppies and loving more than one person