Rules and Agreements

How do rules fit into a polyamorous relationship?


How do you make it work? What is the difference between a rule and an agreement? What limits and boundaries work in polyamorous relationships, and what structures are consistently problematic>

There’s no one right way to have a relationship, but there are plenty of wrong ways—relationship covenants that don’t work, that consistently lead to problems, or that are actively toxic. Here are things I’ve learned about making happy, vibrant relationships that work.


Are Rules Necessary?Polyamory without rules? Isn’t that anarchy and chaos?

Rules That WorkWhat sorts of rules help make relationships successful?

Game ChangersSometimes, new relationships are scary