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This blog post is part of a series on the new, vastly expanded\u00a0<\/em>More Than Two site<\/em><\/a>. This essay spotlights the <\/em>Love Without Restrictions page<\/em><\/a>. Look for more spotlights in the coming days and weeks!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Since I flipped the switch on the new version of the More Than Two polyamory site<\/a>, I\u2019ve started doing a deeper dive into some of the new and updated sections. (I first started writing what would become the More Than Two site back in 1997, meaning it is now, I believe, the oldest continually-updated polyamory site on the Web.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A lot of folks have an idea of polyamory as a zero-commitment free-for-all, where people whod on’t understand love run about having sex with all who will have them. This notion grows from the idea that love, commitment, and exclusivity are all the same thing\u2014that you prove commitment only by being exclusive, rather than, you know, by investing in the person you\u2019re committed to, helping them succeed, being there for them, that sort of thing\u2014and that people are unable to experience being in love with more than one other person at a time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Which might be true of some folks; it’s not my place to say. If someone tells me they\u2019re only able to feel love for one other person at once, I have no reason to doubt them. We\u2019re all different. I can\u2019t run a 6-minute mile, but I don\u2019t doubt the existence of those who can.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anyway, the reverse side of that coin is the notion that love must restrict\u2014that a loving, committed relationship is defined by<\/em> restriction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Which brings us to today\u2019s new page spotlight: Love Without Restriction<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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This new page started out as an answer on Quora<\/a>. The person asking the question wanted a relationship that offered intimacy without being tied down\u2014something that a lot of folks seemed to struggle with. One person said \u201cyou want intimacy without commitment,\u201d which I found a little sad, to be honest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Too often we define intimacy and commitment in terms of giving things up, sacrificing things, letting go of autonomy, agreeing to control. I think this attitude is toxic (but then again, I also think we live in a social environment that normalizes a lot of toxic romantic behavior<\/a>\u2014more on that later in this series!). Point is, to a lot of folks, \u201ccommitment\u201d is measured not in terms of what you give to another person\u2014time, attention, support, showing up, being there for them through adversity\u2014but in what you give up<\/em>, what kind of control you accept, what agency you give away, how you fence yourself in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Relationships, in other words, are a prison, not a meadow. The more confined you are, the more committed you are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Look how committed I am to you! (Image: Mitchel Lensink<\/a><\/em>)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, this isn\u2019t really related to polyamory, at least not directly. Plenty of monogamous people want intimacy without feeling imprisoned, commitment that still honors their agency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But we polyamorous folks get this a lot, because the notion that love and commitment are inextricably bound up with control, that you prove your commitment by building walls and fences, has deep<\/em> roots in most societies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A person who wants intimacy without being bound by it is looked on as wanting to have their cake and eat it too, whatever the hell that\u2019s supposed to mean in this context. They\u2019re told that monogamy is unsuitable for them, as another answer to that Quora question said, or that they\u2019re not ready to \u201csettle down,\u201d which is basically what they call it when you decide that, okay, you\u2019ve had enough of that agency and self-determination thing. And since poly folks are often the most visible champions of the idea that commitment and exclusivity don\u2019t necessarily have to be the same thing, that can leave people who want intimate, committed relationships without being bound by them asking themselves, \u201cdoes that mean I\u2019m poly?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Answer: No, it doesn\u2019t, not necessarily. I mean, it might<\/em>, sure, but whether you\u2019re polyamorous and how much you value your freedom are orthogonal, they aren\u2019t the same thing. (This desire to maintain autonomy is a key component of relationship anarchy, and a lot of folks confuse polyamory and RA, but you can be polyamorous without being RA and RA without being polyamorous.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Love Without Restriction page is a first stab at addressing some of these ideas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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