{"id":882,"date":"2013-07-05T21:04:27","date_gmt":"2013-07-05T21:04:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.morethantwo.com\/blog\/?page_id=15"},"modified":"2020-05-19T18:48:32","modified_gmt":"2020-05-20T01:48:32","slug":"franklin","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.morethantwo.com\/blog\/franklin","title":{"rendered":"Franklin Veaux"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-3188\" src=\"https:\/\/www.morethantwo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/franklin-about.jpg\" alt=\"Franklin\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.morethantwo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/franklin-about.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.morethantwo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/franklin-about-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/>I have been ideologically polyamorous my entire life, functionally polyamorous since 1984, and writing about polyamory since 1998.<\/p>\n<p>What does that mean?<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been polyamorous ideologically for my entire life, in the sense that monogamy has never made much sense to me. I can remember hearing a fairy tale when I was very young, about a princess forced to choose between two handsome princes. I recall thinking &#8220;well, princesses live in castles, everyone knows that. And castles are big enough for both princes. So why does she have to choose?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I started the practice of non-monogamy from the moment I started becoming aware that boys and girls are different; I took two girls to my high school prom, and lost my virginity in a threesome.<\/p>\n<p>Along the way, I&#8217;ve made just about every mistake it&#8217;s possible to make in polyamorous relationships, struggled with feeling like I was the only person in the world who felt this way about love and romance, and been forced to confront a great deal of social convention that ran counter to what I wanted my life to look like. And I wouldn&#8217;t have it any other way.<\/p>\n<p>For a list of my media appearances, check out <a href=\"http:\/\/franklinveaux.com\/media.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">my personal site<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have been ideologically polyamorous my entire life, functionally polyamorous since 1984, and writing about polyamory since 1998. What does that mean? I&#8217;ve been polyamorous ideologically for my entire life, in the sense that monogamy has never made much sense to me. 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