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</html><description>I recently encountered, during the normal course of my regular trawling across the width of this thing we call the Internet, an essay posted on the Psychology Today Web site. The article is a rejection of the notion that adultery is okay (an argument made by a different essay on a different site) and, as far as that goes, I have no quarrel with it. If you're going to make a promise of sexual fidelity, keep it. If you can't, renegotiate the relationship or end it.</description></oembed>

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