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		<title>Sometimes, you gotta just burn it all down</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last year, Eve and I started working on a new book, Love More, Be Awesome. It&#8217;s a followup to More Than Two, intended for a wider audience than just poly folks. We have an ambitious goal: Love More, Be Awesome is intended to be a user&#8217;s manual for being a decent human being. The book […]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last year, Eve and I started working on a new book, <em>Love More, Be Awesome.</em> It&#8217;s a followup to <em>More Than Two,</em> intended for a wider audience than just poly folks. We have an ambitious goal: <em>Love More, Be Awesome</em> is intended to be a user&#8217;s manual for being a decent human being.</p>
<p>The book was originally slated to be on shelves at the end of this year, which means it should be in the final stages of proofreading right about now. It&#8217;s not.</p>
<p>This afternoon, we set fire to the first draft.</p>
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<p>We&#8217;ve been blocked on it for a long time. <em>More Than Two</em> wanted to be written; this book doesn&#8217;t. We&#8217;ve been spinning our wheels, struggling to get anything out. And last week, we finally figured out why: for the last year, we&#8217;ve been thinking about the book in completely the wrong way.</p>
<p>You see, there&#8217;s no such thing as writer&#8217;s block, as it turns out. Instead, there&#8217;s &#8220;you can&#8217;t write because you&#8217;re approaching this wrong.&#8221; </p>
<p>So this afternoon, we torched everything. All our notes, our diagrams, everything about the book, all went into the fire. (Well, except for the bits that exist as bits; those bits just got deleted.) </p>
<p>It was incredibly freeing. Now we can start again, blank slate, with an entirely new approach.</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t wait to get writing.</p>
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